First real question.
Guess what, It came early them I was expected.. my 5 y/o little girl, who’s still jumping on the couch and pretend there were lava on the living room floor and screaming running around in her undies. I’ve feeling that one day I will be sit down and talk about this with her. But was absolutely not expecting it would came this early ..
We were having dinner to get her it was in our girls day out. At dinner (5:30pm of course, there no more eat later then 7pm since I’ve became a mom) she has asked this question.
Her : Mommy, Have you ever worry about if you weren’t fit in with people around you? Like… your friends.
(I was in a surprise. What was happening, what was went wrong with her environment, what was worried her??)
Me: That’s was big question honey, To be honest I was used to be worried when I was younger. But I think that if someone they are really likes me, they should just like me how I am. Because I think it is very hard when we can not be our self. -Also there will people who likes and not likes me the way I am or even when I try to not be my self there will be someone whose likes and not likes me too.
I think it is much easier to be our self and if it not fit in with some people. There will always be someone who will like you a whole bunch because the way you are. I think if that is the case we should not worry to be fit in. And you should be happy with who you are. And be you original self.
Her: Yessss, likes I like to sign and sometime running, screaming and telling jokes and a little bit crazy.
Me: Yes, that’s why I like you!
Her: Yes because I am a little bit crazy like you., mom.
Guess, who get to learn a lessen today..
My daughter learning about not to be worry to fit in.
orMe learning that I am a little bit crazy.
Aren’t parenting is also teaching us something.
